So first of all, negativity is present in the environment some absorb it some dont.
Why beause of insecurity, trust issues, low confidence, high fear, heightened state of stimulation, perception of threat etc.
The people who dont absorb negativity are those who are confident, emotionally stable and protective, have good mindset, not emotionally and psychologically involve in anything. So they know observe and aware of negativity but didnt absorb it.
What is Negativity?
It is low energy that one dont want to stay with. It is a form of fear, insecurity, jeolousy and negative emotions in their heart and mind. They dont want it to be with them because that does not allow them to be happy. So they release it.
Now this energy is hit to a opposite positive person. When positive person percept this, he becames negative and subconscioussly release his positive energy. If he or she psychologically weak.
What it means a psychologically weak person?
It means a person who has not a define routine in their daily life. They have not understood what they want in their life. They were not aware of how they will achieve success in their life. They look into every circumstance emotionally psychologically to get their unsolved answers for it.
This makes them vulnerable for all the negative energy. See when you are aware of what you have to do or how much your work is and responsibilities are. You are somewhat emotionally and psychologically protected. Yes, right. So this is a sign of strong psychology, where a person does not have any fear.
How will you become psychologically strong person?
To become psychologically strong you need,
- Strong principles in your life about what you do, how you behave and what you think.
- Have proper direction in your success or work
- Have silent attitude
- Should observe things
- Should aware about other peoples intentions
- Limit your access to people who dont want your success or sucks you
- Keep distance to people who exploit you make you feel weaker
- Dont provide any kind of good or bad information to them as it serve as a tool for them to continuously exploit you
- Be private to people even who has been not directly involved but indirectly helping to exploit you this are the people who will continuosly make sure that you will be exploited
- Never tell people your side emotions and feelings it serve them a powerful weapon to destroy your feelings
- Whatever they know they will attack on you so protect your every small information
How people is able to release their negativity and absorb your positivity without even your concern?
It occur because they know more about you. They know your thought process, psychology, feelings, thoughts and even behavior.
And on the other hand, you know nothing about them. You even dont aware that they were there to destroy you. They behave in a way to understand how you think, feel and behave in different things. Then release energy and make your aura minus.
They almost know 80 to 90 percent of your side. So it became a very easy process for them to get your energy.
So now, you loose control over protecting your energy. Because they dont need your concern before damaging your aura or misinterpreting your vibes.
So the first thing you should do now, is to collect as much information as possible of other people. This is the only way you will balance both sides. As they know 80 percent you also acquire their 80 percent things. Then they wont able to twist the negativity because you also aware of them as much they are.
You should know how they think, what is their real emotions and intentions, and how they behave, what they hide and what not. But for this you should give yourself a time. Because this will not happen in a day. It will take time so till that time protect yourself by distancing with them or avoiding any interactions with them.
How should you think in such a situation?
During this time one good person thinks, i will focus on myself. I will not involve with negative people.
But this is not enough. As this negative people will harm you even you stay away from them because they know about you more. They will create problem and issues so you became frustrated and releases negative energy.
So you should think as you will gather all the information about other people who exploit you and then manage yourself and them.
This is very practical advise. But yes always collect the information only of what and how they damage you. Yes im this process dont get involve in their negativity or else instead of getting protected you will became a nonsense person.
So in this case you should give yourself a time. So that everything will be okay and you will conquer your battle that you are fighting.
So, it is a life this all this things happen, take it lightly and progress in your life…
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